If two adults, by mutual consent and for mutual pleasure watch porn, then there is no problem in that. It may be quite a thrilling experience and entertainment. Questions pop up when one of the partners feel negative emotions. If everyone is happy with everything and there is no rejection, we can assume that we are dealing with a variant of a method to get pleasure and relax.
Sexologists believe that porn can play a positive role in the lives of those whose imagination is poor. Despite pornographic films and videos are a phenomenon of the last century, the culture of erotic tractates and inspiring had existed long before. More than 100 years ago people had to manage their own imagination with fairytales, the advice of relatives, songs, paintings etc. And they, apparently, did it well.
Pornography can’t replace fantasy but may present new plots and techniques. Some people are afraid of the risk that it will not enrich, but will substitute for a healthy sexual relationship. But it’s unlike scenario. Each pair has to consider this thin line independently. And strive to transfer joy of lovemaking into a positive attitude to life, well-being both emotionally & physically.
Sexologists and physicians claim that people watch porn for different reasons. Here are some interesting conclusions:
- Why do men watch lesbian porn? Consumers of pornographic video strongly “vote” for the scenes of same-sex love between two (as well as three, four and further to infinity) women. What explains the popularity of this “genre”? With regard to the possible popularity of lesbian porn among men, the answer offered is offensively simple. The researchers state that visual stimuli play an extremely important role in the male mechanisms of sexual arousal. And what could be more stimulating than a beautiful, naked and ready to make love woman? That’s right – two such women. Well, or three – and so on.
- If we talk about women, it is not visual images that are much more important for excitement, but experienced emotions. Probably for this reason, for example, the film Brokeback Mountain about the love of two cowboys was a huge success with a female audience. However, the dramatic story itself attracted women and not the scenes of carnal love between the main characters. That confirms the following fact: porn with gay participation does not help women to relax and find inspiration.
Nonetheless, some experts caution against overuse of pornography. “The availability of porn acts just like an excessive amount of even the most beloved food, they claim. Just remember how in childhood we waited for New Year presents because we didn’t earn money to buy something special ourselves. And now due to Internet shops all staff available all year round from different corner of the world. And no one is waiting. Interest disappeared. Similarly is with porn: an excess of stimuli can lead to a decrease in desire and be boring.